The heart is like a pocket. If you don’t hold anything, it is called the mind. If you put on a little bit, it is called the mind. If you put on too much, it is called the scheming. If you put on too much, it is called the scheming. In the end, the burden can only be regarded as the thought. People often care too much about fame and fortune that are close to you. Whether our lives are as brilliant as when talking to friends. In real life, there are also many people who are deeply trapped in love without fruition. They know that they are wrong, but they still have to move forward in a roundabout way. Those marriages that keep saying that they have to continue to maintain for the sake of life and food and clothing. Many people cannot take it or let go, and let the blank life be repeated in their own eyes. Slowly, this burden erodes us

Body and mind are overwhelmed. Try to let go, let go of your fatigue, let go of those obsessions without results. If you and his future are not ideal when you wake up, it is better to advise yourself to let go as soon as possible. Long pain is worse than short pain. Try to see more, will you have happiness if you have money? Just like you exhausted your energy and get promoted in the workplace, and when you are about to take office, can money be exchanged for health? Can more money be exchanged for your life and vitality? Money is important, but compared with life, family affection, and love, money is really not that important. Physical wealth cannot be compared with priceless emotions and life, so how can you choose?

People must think of three questions: first, what you have, second, what you want, and third, what you can give up. For most people: what we have, we often easily evaluate our current situation; what we want, most people also have clear ideas in their hearts; then the question comes, now you tell me what you can give up, almost no one can easily get everything you want without giving up. Everything in life will not make you satisfied. As the saying goes: People die for money, birds die for food. But how many people finally fall into their jobs for success in their careers. Those word-of-mouth cases are not accidental.

Accidents, just like the development of disease, also have a gradual process. External overwork and excessive worry in the heart, external factors and internal factors are never separated. Those children who work thousands of miles away, their seriously ill mothers in their families cannot bear to pass on the message of illness in their children's ears to prevent their children from being too worried about it, and they cannot meet for the last time when they die. I do not agree with the practice of leaving home and leaving their business entirely at work. If you work for a while, you still have the chance to get it again even if you leave this. However, your family and health will accompany you for a long time, and once you lose it, it will be forever. Maybe you die for money, but it is not worth it.

In life, many people like to sway one thing, and they are undecided. They are afraid of losing if they make a move easily, and they are afraid of missing a single piece. So they are always entangled in the slightest trivial matters that are not worth mentioning, so they always live in the quagmire of tension and cannot extricate themselves. In their short life, be cautious and cautious, and prevent the escaping of the problem. Perhaps someone else's words, a look, or an expression will always be pondered. But others always keep the words of casual words in their hearts and be resentful. There is a clue in everything and they are worried about it. Therefore, these people are always tired and the word "comfortable" is completely inseparable from them. In fact, there is a mentality in life called letting go. There is no need to fight for everything. The society we live in is very complicated, but many people make this already complex society more complicated and complicated and unruly. Greedy people are easily hit. The less desire, the happier life is.

Why do people have troubles and sorrows? In the final analysis, it still arises from greed. In the past five thousand years, many people in China not only die from fame and fortune, but also become infamous for thousands of years.

In life, some people lose their eyes because of reluctance. The eyes grow on the top of their heads, and they always imagine unrealistic distances and cannot see the happiness that is close to them.

In ancient times, an ancient temple with great incense was very popular. One day when the Buddha was about to leave, he looked up and saw a spider with a net under the eaves. The Buddha asked, "What do you think is the most precious in the world?" The spider thought for a while and said, "It is something you can't get or have lost." The Buddha smiled and said, "You continue to build a net cafe here. I will come to ask you the same question a thousand years later."

The day after the Buddha left, a dewdrop blew from the spider's web. The spider guarded the dewdrop all day long, and he didn't know what to do if he liked it. But a gust of wind blew, and the dewdrop fell to the ground and disappeared. The spider was very sad and depressed all day long. Another thousand years later, the Buddha came as promised and asked the spider: "What do you think is the most precious thing in the world now?" The spider said: "I still think it is something that cannot be obtained and what has been lost." The Buddha said: "Okay, you have also been incense for two thousand years here, so I will let you reincarnate and walk back to the world!"

Spider was reincarnated as a lady in an official family, named Zhuer. Just one day when she was sixteen years old, the new top scholar Gan Lu announced the list. The emperor held a banquet for the top scholar. Many princes and nobles and their daughters accompanied him. There were also princesses and long-lasting princes. During the meal, Gan Lu recited poems and essays, and was full of talent. All the girls admired him. Zhuer also fell in love with him, but she pretended to be noble. She knew that Gan Lu would also fall in love with her because she thought it was the fate given to her by the Buddha.

One day, Ganlu and Zhuer met at a temple fair. Zhuer thought Ganlu would definitely chat with her, but Ganlu ignored her. Zhuer was surprised, so she took the initiative to talk to Ganlu and told Ganlu that they had a thousand years of fate. This was the Buddha's arrangement. Ganlu said: "Miss, I think you are a good girl, but I don't understand what you said. I think you may have found the wrong person." After that, he left.

The next day, the emperor decided to match the princess Changfeng with the top scholar and recruit him as his son-in-law. He also promised Zhu'er to the prince Zhicao. On the day of Ganlu and the princess' wedding, Zhu'er could not bear the stimulation and fainted and was bedridden from then on. During Mili, she met Buddha again. Buddha told Zhu'er that she was actually the spider two thousand years ago. Ganlu was the dew drop on her web. It was brought by the wind (the princess Changfeng), and eventually the wind would take it away. The dew belongs to the wind. For Zhu'er, it was just a passerby, an experience, but in the end it did not belong to the spider. Zhicao (the prince) was a small grass growing on the ground two thousand years ago. It looked at the spider for two thousand years and guarded the spider for two thousand years, but the spider never looked down at him. Zhicao is the person Zhu'er should cherish...

Zhu'er seemed to have an epiphany. When she woke up, she saw Zhicao sadly preparing to commit suicide, and went with Zhu'er. Zhu'er knocked down the sword in his hand and hugged him tightly...

In fact, the most precious thing in the world is not "what you can't get and what you have lost", but the happiness you have now!

Fate cannot be forced, it is yours, others cannot take it away, it is not yours, and it is impossible to rack your brain. Because love affairs are never a matter of no reason. Letting go is a kind of fulfillment and a kind of gain. In life, everyone yearns for love, but just like some people love you, you turn a blind eye. Some people you love the entanglement of love, and love becomes obsession in the end. Let go of the past and give each other freedom, whether it is appropriate or not, it will be clear after being together for a while. It is just

You can't let go. In fact, letting go is not a kind of thing. When you walk out of the trough of love, you will find that you are really just giving up a tree, and there are dense forests ahead, and you are more aware of your desires in your heart. It is said that first love does not understand love at all, and is cute and knowledgeable. If you are wrong, you will lose every step of the way and drag down your whole life. Compared to living together, it is better to let go as soon as possible. To fulfill him is also to fulfill himself.

What is happiness? It’s cold, and your mother sews a sweater for you. As soon as you come back from afar, you hit your lover’s hot chest. As we grow older, the fragments that allow us to truly experience happiness are all simple and pure love.

In fact, the so-called union and union are mostly thoughts in our hearts. We are often trapped in our own opinion, and we struggle and hesitate but we can't get out. Once you get out of the trap, you realize that there is another world outside the cave, and what you think is completely false. For example, there was a leader in my previous unit. She had a bad temper and belonged to the kind of person who was a knife-like mouth and a tofu heart. I happened to be a straight person. Everyone around me laughed at me as a person who would rather break than bend. For a while, the leader always criticized me, and even as usual.

Three times, I was already angry. During that time, my friends often joked, "I told you that you are not united with her, of course she tried her best to mess with you. Didn't you notice that you blocked someone's way? Didn't you see the new employees learning the same things as you? She is familiar with the leaders. Maybe they specially put new people in toss and lose their sleep in order to undermine you." During that time, I always made this definition in my mind. She wanted to mess with me and me, which made me think about it day and night, toss and turn and insomnia every night. Until a month later

,She left. At the farewell party, she took the initiative to come to me. Before I could raise my glass, she drank three glasses of wine. She said, "I know there is something unhappy between us. Since we decided to leave, there are some things that we have to say, you must blame me in your heart and blame me for criticizing you in front of everyone, and repeatedly. But do you know, from the first sight of me, you look like I just entered society. Because the expectations are high, just like a small tree needs to rest frequently to grow into a tall tree. Perhaps people and humans have ideas.

The difference, my words are too intense, but I have never targeted you with my work aside. You are a sensible person, and when one day you sit in my seat, you will understand my mood at that time. "When I drank that glass of wine, I knew it in my heart. Every time my leader criticized me, I would mention a lot of self-righteous 100,000 whys, and I have never been a sensitive person in my heart who can't be scolded. The barrier is not in criticism, nor in criticism, but in my ears, I imagine the infinite spread of scenes.

"Together, it is not about giving up everything, but about looking at things calmly and observing things around you carefully. Give up if you should, and don't pursue them blindly. Give up the things that make you suffer and unhappy; Give up the things that make you uneasy and worry; Give up the things that make you betray your faith and be unseparable from good and evil, and gain innocence, peace of mind, and happiness."
Chapter completed!