3193. Chapter 3193 All that is forced is debt
I turned my head and stared at him and joked, "Is that what you are trying to comfort your girlfriend who is separated from you?"
"Actually, I'm just afraid of loneliness, so I look like I've dated a lot of girlfriends. In fact, you won't believe it even if you say it, there's only one."
I was very surprised: "How is it possible? The outside world says you are a playboy. Even if Bi Nian and you are classmates, she should know you very well and think that you are fickle and want me to be careful of your charm!"
He smiled bitterly: "There are constant women around the playboy. I find some women to accompany me because of social needs. If a man is not good at drinking, sex and wealth, and is not easy to do business. In fact, when I live alone, I would rather come to meditate, not drink, smoke, or look for women. If a man is such a person, others will regard you as an alien in life."
I can only "hehe". After so long with the men in the Bi family, I naturally know that I should not believe what others say easily.
Maybe he said such words because he had feelings for me in his heart.
If a man is handsome, rich, and single, how can there be fewer women around him?
Moreover, it is difficult for men to bear loneliness due to physical reasons.
He is also in his early 30s. In the past year, his conditions are so good. How could he have only one admitted girlfriend in recent years?
I don’t believe in men’s lies!
"Tell me, who is the only woman you love?" I laughed: "It's not Sister Bi Nian, is it?"
"Haha, I don't have that vision. If I have the vision, I will fall in love with Bi Nian. What a great woman, I have prepared all the car room for you. I don't want you. It turns out that I am a good wife. At that time, I was young and the girl I liked was not so good."
"Not such a good girl, why do you like others? No wonder you didn't succeed."
"Only after suffering a loss, you will become wise! Later, every girl actually looks like her. I like thin girls and big eyes. Don't be so smart anymore."
I looked at myself and I was of this type, big eyes, thin and fair.
"It seems that that woman hurts you very much. Sure enough, after every scum, there is a person who hurts his heart. This truth applies to both men and women."
"Okay, don't mess with my words. In short, the only woman I admit to love deeply is her. Unfortunately, she has disappeared from the vast crowd. But even if we meet again, our hearts will definitely feel different. In fact, she made me successful."
Along the way, he did not talk about his feelings in depth. He was an introverted man. In the real secret, he could keep his inner world.
We recite scriptures in the temple, kowtowed, burned incense and worshiped Buddha, and then he took me to a master I knew.
He asked the master to give us some teachings.
The master looked at him and said, "It's still the words you said to you before. You have to let go, let go, not just say it on your mouth, but also really let go in your heart."
He scratched his head and asked in confusion: "Master, what do you want me to put down?"
"Anything you are obsessed with, you have to ask your inner world."
Xiaocheng turned to me: "Master, then look, my friend, what is the problem she is facing now?"
The master looked at me and nodded silently: "Let's go with the flow!"
"With the flow, what's the flow?" I asked.
The master smiled: "You will understand when the time comes."
"Master, what I am facing now is emotional problems. In terms of emotions, I want to go with the flow, right?"
"It's yours, it's yours. You will come back. It's not yours. Just follow the circumstances. Don't fight for fate. What you ask for or force it is all debt. Amitabha." The master raised his glass to see him off.
We walked out, and I recalled the words of Master and asked, "Is what Master said directed at Bi Tian?"
Xiaocheng said: "I don't know, it takes time to experience it. Master has attained enlightenment, so what I can't say is very straightforward, and it takes time to understand it. When time comes, you will understand what Master said. Buddhism requires us to practice both blessings and wisdom, and your wisdom needs to be practiced well." I turned my head and stared at him and joked: "Is this how you comfort your girlfriend who is separated from you?"
"Actually, I'm just afraid of loneliness, so I look like I've dated a lot of girlfriends. In fact, you won't believe it even if you say it, there's only one."
I was very surprised: "How is it possible? The outside world says you are a playboy. Even if Bi Nian and you are classmates, she should know you very well and think that you are fickle and want me to be careful of your charm!"
He smiled bitterly: "There are constant women around the playboy. I find some women to accompany me because of social needs. If a man is not good at drinking, sex and wealth, and is not easy to do business. In fact, when I live alone, I would rather come to meditate, not drink, smoke, or look for women. If a man is such a person, others will regard you as an alien in life."
I can only "hehe". After so long with the men in the Bi family, I naturally know that I should not believe what others say easily.
Maybe he said such words because he had feelings for me in his heart.
If a man is handsome, rich, and single, how can there be fewer women around him?
Moreover, it is difficult for men to bear loneliness due to physical reasons.
He is also in his early 30s. In the past year, his conditions are so good. How could he have only one admitted girlfriend in recent years?
I don’t believe in men’s lies!
"Tell me, who is the only woman you love?" I laughed: "It's not Sister Bi Nian, is it?"
"Haha, I don't have that vision. If I have the vision, I will fall in love with Bi Nian. What a great woman, I have prepared all the car room for you. I don't want you. It turns out that I am a good wife. At that time, I was young and the girl I liked was not so good."
"Not such a good girl, why do you like others? No wonder you didn't succeed."
"Only after suffering a loss, you will become wise! Later, every girl actually looks like her. I like thin girls and big eyes. Don't be so smart anymore."
I looked at myself and I was of this type, big eyes, thin and fair.
"It seems that that woman hurts you very much. Sure enough, after every scum, there is a person who hurts his heart. This truth applies to both men and women."
"Okay, don't mess with my words. In short, the only woman I admit to love deeply is her. Unfortunately, she has disappeared from the vast crowd. But even if we meet again, our hearts will definitely feel different. In fact, she made me successful."
Along the way, he did not talk about his feelings in depth. He was an introverted man. In the real secret, he could keep his inner world.
We recite scriptures in the temple, kowtowed, burned incense and worshiped Buddha, and then he took me to a master I knew.
He asked the master to give us some teachings.
The master looked at him and said, "It's still the words you said to you before. You have to let go, let go, not just say it on your mouth, but also really let go in your heart."
He scratched his head and asked in confusion: "Master, what do you want me to put down?"
"Anything you are obsessed with, you have to ask your inner world."
Xiaocheng turned to me: "Master, then look, my friend, what is the problem she is facing now?"
The master looked at me and nodded silently: "Let's go with the flow!"
"With the flow, what's the flow?" I asked.
The master smiled: "You will understand when the time comes."
"Master, what I am facing now is emotional problems. In terms of emotions, I want to go with the flow, right?"
"It's yours, it's yours. You will come back. It's not yours. Just follow the circumstances. Don't fight for fate. What you ask for or force it is all debt. Amitabha." The master raised his glass to see him off.
We walked out, and I recalled the words of Master and asked, "Is what Master said directed at Bi Tian?"
Chapter completed!