Life is like time, and it is the same for everyone. However, because of different thoughts, thinking, mentality, etc., different life situations emerge. Some people live in poverty and pain, some people live in food and clothing, and some people live in luxury and clothing.

Faced with such a gap in life, we will naturally feel complaining or complaining. However, we have conducted in-depth analysis and thinking, why can others live well while you are not doing well? Many times, we care too much about our family background or the wealth accumulated by our parents or the material foundation we have given us is too weak, and we push all the excuses and reasons to our parents. If it is just like this, it is not an exaggeration. If we don’t work hard, we will lead to our lives being worse than others or as a sin of our parents, then this is too inappropriate.

All parents can give us is life. This is the greatest gift from nature to us. We must not be grateful but instead be ungrateful or repay grudges with grudges. That is our greatest sin. In fact, we should know our situation and the difference from others, find the direction and goal of our struggle, and constantly work hard and change. If we just complain or complain, it may be like this for the rest of our lives.

There are many people around us who are born humble, have poor families, and have bad experiences, but they can live freely, freely, happy and fulfilling, but why can't you? This is what we should think about, and we should be clear: "Complaints are useless, everything depends on ourselves." Because in this world, we can only rely on ourselves, why? Because you rely on others, others cannot help or serve you forever, one day they will leave you; because you rely on your parents, parents cannot treat you as a child forever or not let you grow up, one day they will leave you; because you rely on relatives and friends, relatives and friends will not help you all the time, and one day they will not be able to help you.

Complaints are actually the biggest obstacle to us. If we start to feel disheartened because of a little bit of dissatisfaction or dissatisfaction, those who are depressed and unable to recover, and the whole person is anxious to be so decadent, then no one can save you, no one can change you, and in the end, no one will look down on you. We should always maintain a sunny mentality and live confidently, because life is not so beautiful, so there is no reason not to live it well. This mentality is actually valuable, but many of us just can't do it.

At that time, maybe they always think that this is artificial, pretentious, and forced themselves. However, we can carefully observe the people around us. How many of the people who only complain all day long have succeeded? No. On the contrary, those who actively seek solutions when encountering difficulties have basically achieved small achievements. This is the difference, which is what you have never understood. Therefore, your life is not as good as others. That is because you can't bear the hardships others can endure, you don't want to give so much what others have done, you don't face them or are afraid of facing those difficulties and setbacks.

There is an old saying: "Only one can become the best in suffering" is to tell us that when facing the suffering of life, we can only temper our perseverance and indomitable character after experiencing the sufferings of the world. What we need is action rather than complaining and complaining. Only actions can solve problems, and complaining can only be considered indignation for one's incompetence. Because we do not have the ability or courage to overcome and change, we will find excuses and reasons to shirk, and will continue to feel resentment, and eventually trouble ourselves and spend our precious time in mediocrity. To become a superior person, we must overcome the complaining mentality, eliminate the complaining mentality, and fight with a confidence that I can do, so that your life will naturally be different.

If you want to truly live a decent self, you must face yourself at all times, face your shortcomings and shortcomings, face the unbeauties of your life, face your actions and abilities, and then improve yourself in the process of continuous practice, and say goodbye to complain thoroughly. In this way, you will gain a brand new self, and you will truly transform, bravely walk out of the encirclement of life, step out of the confinement and comfort zone of thinking, boldly practice your ideas, overcome all kinds of difficulties in life, find reasons for success, and not excuses for failure. Tell yourself that excuses and reasons can only be a perfunctory and coping with others at some point, but this should not be done.

Yes, because I think we should dare to act, be brave, take responsibility, and have no excuses. Such a decisive style is the driving force and weapon for us to move forward. Whenever we encounter some failures or setbacks, we should be clear whether we are not capable or not prepared enough, whether we are unconscious or others are ahead of us, instead of complaining about unfair fate or complaining that we are not as capable as others. This only determines your future achievements and gains in just one thought. Sometimes you know where the root cause is, and then it provides reference and warning for your subsequent life, knowing what aspects you should strive to overcome and what aspects you should improve.

Instead of complaining, it is better to leave this time for yourself to think, summarize and improve. Because only by fully applying time will we have no time to think randomly, and will motivate ourselves to be more motivated and be more proactive. Such a tense and fulfilling life is what we must do. If you don’t have time to be decadent, have no time to complain, and have no time to be bored, then you can definitely be as good as others, and you will feel that you have changed your appearance, and then you will live a true self. Because each of us has three "mes" - the fake self, the self, and the true self. Only by stimulating all our potential and working tirelessly can we realize the real self and the excellent potential of ourselves. Therefore, don’t complain about yourself casually. Just work hard until you are powerless and touch yourself, and you can live without regrets in life.

We come to this world just to do something? Therefore, in this long and short life period of our lives, we should really work harder and complain less, constantly sound the horn of our struggle to warn ourselves, and constantly motivate ourselves to complain is useless, and complaining can only be indignation about our incompetence.

In my memory, in my childhood physical education class, the teacher organized us boys to hold a high jump competition. When the benchmark rose to 90 cm, there were always a few boys who couldn't jump, which was booed by other students. In addition, there were also a sense of shame in this booing, because I was one of the boys who couldn't jump.

Later, in order to make all boys pass the physical education scores, the teacher talked about the skills of high jump again. I heard it word by word. When it was about to jump again, I mustered up the courage to try again according to the skills mentioned by the teacher. This time, all the students in the class applauded together.

This incident has affected me for many years. When I fall behind, I will be ridiculed by others. Only when I make progress can I be respected and encouraged by others. Only when I am a better self can I meet the best others.

Nine out of ten things are unsatisfactory in life. There is yin and there is sunshine, there is gain and there is loss, there is happiness and unhappiness. In this complexity, if we are deeply trapped in it, we will lose ourselves. We can only improve our own height and cultivate our hearts in the tempering of life, not to worry about things and people, try to interact with positive and positive people, keep ourselves in a prosperous state at all times, and always let ourselves be in the best state. Then, the beauty of life will bloom to you.

Sometimes, when we are sad, we can allow ourselves to be sad for a while, but we are not allowed to sink into it since then. There are many slices of life. This window shows that the puppy is dead, and the other window may be that flowers are in full bloom. Therefore, switching channels and states at the right time is an exercise of control over one's own strength, which is very important.

There is no regret in life. A life without regrets is a kind of regret. What we have to do is to deal with these regrets in the right mindset and method, clean up our mood, go lightly, and go further to see the bigger sea. We must learn to let go of our obsessions and be worthy of our unintentional hearts, because what we let go is impossible, and our unintentional hearts are responsible for our own life. Sometimes, we cry while walking, the impossible in our hearts have become possible, and those unattainable goals have become scenery behind us.

If you bloom, flowers and butterflies will come. If you are wonderful, the heaven will arrange them. Sometimes, all we lack is a kind of self-exciting courage. We can obviously make ourselves better, but if we give up the opportunity, we can clearly prove ourselves, but we lack courage. Many times, it is not that we cannot do it, but that we dare not think about it and try it. It is more terrible than failure itself.

In fact, each of us can explore a better selves and be the best selves, but we lose the ability to explore ourselves. The 9-to-5 selves make us confused, the temptations of lights and wine make us sink, the complex and complex human feelings make us tired, the "friendship" of those friends makes us chaotic, we are just slaves driven by desire, not the master who dominates desires. When a person can correctly handle his own desires and trivial matters in life, then this is the best selves.
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